How and when to ask God for help through prayer.
Bible advice on the power of prayer.
How to keep track of prayers.




Importantly, please read the introductory article to this section of the website, “God’s presence in our lives” before going on, if you have not already. It explains the various methods, available to us, that we can use to engage with God in our lives. And how our lives can be positively transformed as a result! It also puts those available methods, and our overall relationship with God, in perspective.

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This particular article is an intro to the subsection titled, “Prayers of request”.  The subsection is placed in the “God in life” section of the website. Please see the Menu Bar above. As the name of this article implies, it offers advice on how to actually request help from God through prayer. And remember millions have successfully gone before you with this stuff.


Without doubt, prayer is one of the ‘foundation blocks’ of Christian faith. As in any relationship,  communication is a must. Time should be set aside on a regular basis to spend with God; to talk with him. Look, this may feel unusual at first. And I write that with due regard to how I felt about it when I was a beginner Christian. We have to start somewhere though: beginning that connection with God through faith. Actively engaging with God!

To the experienced Christian, prayer has many forms:

  • Requests for help for ourselves and importantly for others in need;
  • Thanks for what has been received;
  • Praising and worshipping the Lord;
  • Just plain enjoying his loving company.

As mentioned already, this subsection is about prayers of request, but the article, “Mature prayer” follows later in this “God in life” section. And it gets into the deeper side of prayer … bonding with our loving God etc … and its potential for ever stronger faith, and belief in him.

I have seriously tested and evaluated all forms of Christian prayer, with plenty of assistance from ‘experts’ I must add. They do work! (Again, please click here to read about the ‘who’, ‘how’ and ‘why’ of this website.)


But getting back to the point, we can use ‘prayers of request’ in all areas of our lives. For example, prayers requesting assistance for ourselves, from God, can be applied to our spiritual direction, doubts challenging our faith, personal relationships, family conflicts, health issues, education and work issues, problems with addictions and bad habits, financial necessities, buying essential assets etc.

Simply put, God’s power can be applied to almost any genuine need, or difficulty, we face in life! However, bear in mind it is much more likely that God will assist within our general day-to-day lives and related problems, rather than perform miracles or the like. And I must add that we will not justifiably get everything we ask for.

Of course, if prayers are not successful then our ‘faith’ may be weakened. So, it is at least useful to have some knowledge, based on sound Bible-based knowledge, before beginning the practise. And I do get to that later.


I can say with complete confidence, based on my own experience, that prayers definitely do positively influence outcomes of life when we use them ‘appropriately’. I have seen some incredible stuff come off through prayer during my thirty plus years of evaluating Christian faith. Yes, their results, really do offer strong proof of God’s presence in our lives.

Open your mind to the likelihood that our loving God awaits your requests for assistance – both for yourself and for others – and I do not believe you will be disappointed in the long term. From the New Testament:

So I say to you: Ask and it shall be given to you;
seek and you will find;
knock and the door will be opened to you.
For everyone who asks receives;
he who seeks finds;
and to him who knocks, the door will be opened.
[Luke 11:9-10]

You do not have, because you do not ask God.
[James 4:2]

Do not be anxious about anything,
but in everything, by prayer and petition,
with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
[Philippians 3:21]

Remember though, as I keep advising, prayers must be appropriate. And there is plenty of Bible-based guidance, in this regard, within this subsection.

The Lord knows exactly what we really ‘need’, and when. So if our lives are in sync with his vision for us, they really can be positively transformed. Our prayers of request should take these points into account.


So “ask and you shall receive” is the Bible’s promise – although ‘conditions apply’ as explained in those following articles.

AND God will, if the conditions are right, answer our prayers. Like me, you will come to find that its power, after enough evidence is gathered, clearly elevates it above sheer luck. Really!

Although it sounds a bit selfish to use faith to gain assistance from God for ourselves in our day-to-day lives through prayers of request, it has two positive results. Firstly, it allows God to prove his unconditional love for us, and I can only assume that he greatly enjoys doing so. As I often say too, he is a God of action. He can make life a lot more purposeful and contented for us as a result. Secondly, by proving his presence is there, within our lives, enables both our ‘belief and faith‘ to grow.

Now as you would guess, when I started out using prayers decades ago, I did not know everything the Bible had to say about it. And to make matters worse, I was a ‘bit slack’ in my approach. For a starter I often forgot exactly what I had prayed for, so I didn’t know what God had or hadn’t done for me as such. When I did come to hear about ‘prayer journals’ … well, I thought they sounded a great idea.

Prayer journals are useful to track discussions with God, and are a great idea for beginner Christians. Prayer requests should firstly be ‘stated and dated’. Then later-on we use these ‘journals’ to log God’s eventual response.


As I wrote earlier, we may not get everything we ask for through our prayers. The following articles in this subsection offer suggestions, based on relevant Bible verses, to improve the success of prayers:

These Bible-based understandings of mine are now reinforced by my lengthy experience and evaluation. As usual I have discussed all manner of prayer with experienced fellow Christians and the clergy on my advisory team.

I really do recommend that you read all of the articles in this subsection on “Prayers of request” – before putting their guidance to use. And that approach will make sure you do not take any of the Bible-based advice out of context, which might weaken your results.

Please continue to the next article, Prayer methods.


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